Ok my marriage has been strained for a long time and it has finally snapped, finished, ended!!! Its my decision and it has been waiting to be made for a while. I know I'm relieved in a sense but hell do i feel sick to my stomach!!
The kids are devastated, he is beside himself, i feel guilty, but can i stay in a marriage because of guilt, no.....it wouldn't be fair on any of us.
I'm scared, upset, worried.....we have been together since i was 17 yrs old and i have only known life with him!!
Sorry
xmillyxxx
Pro 
Hun, i know how you are feeling as i ended my marriage 3 years ago after 12 years together, married for 8! Thing is hun, it will only hurt the kids more if you stay together, as they will pick up on everything. it's horrible in the early days, but you will get back on track. Take care and PM me if you wanna talk ok xx((hugs))